Does anyone actually enjoy doing group projects? I don’t think I’ve ever met anybody who did, and it’s rare that I’ve enjoyed them myself. Unless you luck out and get a great group and are working on a project that is in and of itself great, chances are good that you’re in for some stress.
This is to say nothing of when situations aren’t ideal – perhaps you hate the subject matter as it is, or you have less than ideal group mates, or your instructor isn’t understanding of the circumstances outside of your control. To make matters worse, sometimes you or your group members may have extenuating circumstances that make things even more difficult, like an overfilled schedule or a condition like social anxiety disorder.
That being said, there are ways to deal with these besides just “sucking it up and dealing with it”. After all, much of the post-graduate world involves collaborative work, and these problems don’t disappear when you get your diploma.
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