{"id":763,"date":"2015-04-13T13:40:57","date_gmt":"2015-04-13T18:40:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.uww.edu\/warhawkfitness\/?p=763"},"modified":"2015-04-13T13:40:57","modified_gmt":"2015-04-13T18:40:57","slug":"half-full-happiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.uww.edu\/warhawkfitness\/2015\/04\/13\/half-full-happiness\/","title":{"rendered":"Half Full Happiness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.uww.edu\/warhawkfitness\/files\/2015\/04\/Pic-for-Blog-Half-Full-Happiness.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-764 alignleft\" alt=\"Pic for Blog- Half Full Happiness\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.uww.edu\/warhawkfitness\/files\/2015\/04\/Pic-for-Blog-Half-Full-Happiness-300x232.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"232\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.uww.edu\/warhawkfitness\/files\/2015\/04\/Pic-for-Blog-Half-Full-Happiness-300x232.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.uww.edu\/warhawkfitness\/files\/2015\/04\/Pic-for-Blog-Half-Full-Happiness-387x300.jpg 387w, https:\/\/blogs.uww.edu\/warhawkfitness\/files\/2015\/04\/Pic-for-Blog-Half-Full-Happiness.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Okay you know the drill: there is a light at the end of the tunnel, positivity is power, the grass is greener, the glass is half full and all that jazz. I\u2019m not here to be a motivational cassette tape in the form of a blog, because you\u2019ve heard all of the clich\u00e9s. Instead, I want to talk about the inevitable result of a positive mindset, and why we often subconsciously choose negativity.<\/p>\n<p>In the midst of enduring a week of which at the time I could have been certain I was the most stressed person in the world, I received a text that made me sit up and think to myself, \u201cAlena you dingus, it\u2019s not the end of the world. Take a lap\u201d. Even for someone who self-proclaims themselves to have optimism coming out of their ears, I sat there dumbfounded reading the text from one of my good friends in a group chat that simply said, \u201cGuys, I decided I\u2019m going to give up negativity.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Not only did the concept of giving up negativity arrive via imessage at a perfect time, but it\u2019s so wonderfully simple. Of course it\u2019s easier said than done, but I\u2019ve learned that the first step to minimizing negativity is to take the initiative to verbalize it. This was made clear to me when I wrapped up my appointment at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.uww.edu\/uhcs\">UHCS<\/a> for an untimely cold by being asked to participate in a small lifestyle questionnaire by the UHCS\u2019s Health Educator. I learned a couple things about what simply verbalizing positive words can do.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Changing \u201cI have to\u201d to \u201cI am going to\u201d will make you more prone to fulfill a task, whether it be going to the gym, doing homework, cleaning, etc.<\/li>\n<li>Eliminate your negative self-fulfilled prophesies. Above I mentioned using \u201cI am going to\u201d obviously doesn\u2019t apply to negative outcomes. Saying \u201cI am going to fail this exam\u201d gives you a mindset that the fate of your exam is a lost cause and putting any extra effort in is useless.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">\u201cI\u2019m not na\u00efve and not negative<\/span><b>\u201d<\/b> I\u2019ve come to the realization that people choose to verbalize their stress in order to portray the hard work they are putting in. The truth is,<b> people who are positive are not floating through life. <\/b>Rather, they are choosing the healthier route, which allows them to accomplish more. Everyone has stress in some shape or form, so don\u2019t predict or compare other people\u2019s work load based on how much they complain. That is just silly. Stop that.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">\u201cDon\u2019t be a Negative Nancy\u201d<\/span><b> <\/b>You may have heard this phrase before.\u00a0 It may have been directed at you, or maybe you\u2019ve even used it yourself. The thing about being a negative Nancy or a pessimistic Patty is that you\u2019re not purposely trying to be the Eeyore amongst all of the Winnie the Poohs. Like I mentioned above, complaining is a natural way for us to make our hard work recognized. However, although venting is completely healthy, comparing your work load to other people\u2019s work load is a parasitic relationship. You\u2019re killing their vibe, man.<\/p>\n<p>Simply setting yourself up for success through words and expressing what you can and will accomplish is an initiative that we naturally pass up. As the end of the semester is right around the corner and final exams are quicly approaching, I encourage you to use the infamous exam week as an experiment. Pitch positive self-fulfilling prophecies to your friends while cramming for an exam, put it on social media, and overall carry that healthy mindset with you and examine the outcome. Lastly, it is important to not only surround ourselves with positive people, but also to be that positive person. So keep your chin up and head high, because the glass can be half full if you want it to be.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s a good day to have a good one.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>-Alena Purpero<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Okay you know the drill: there is a light at the end of the tunnel, positivity is power, the grass is greener, the glass is half full and all that jazz. 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