{"id":21,"date":"2022-02-16T03:50:17","date_gmt":"2022-02-16T03:50:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.uww.edu\/j347nicoleeithun\/?p=21"},"modified":"2022-02-16T03:50:17","modified_gmt":"2022-02-16T03:50:17","slug":"hallmark-scheme-or-genuine-gesture","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.uww.edu\/j347nicoleeithun\/2022\/02\/16\/hallmark-scheme-or-genuine-gesture\/","title":{"rendered":"Hallmark scheme or genuine gesture?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>It seems like you either love or hate Valentine&#8217;s Day. Many people in my life seem to find this day as a hallmark scheme which maybe they are right about that. As a hopeless romantic in college with realistic expectations I never expect something for Valentine&#8217;s day. However, there is something about going to the store during Valentine&#8217;s Day weekend and seeing people buy flowers and chocolates for the person or people they love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everyone has a different love language. Mine happens to be giving gifts. Throughout the year I like giving little gifts to my boyfriend of 2 years. I&#8217;ll surprise him with his favorite drinks or if I see something that I think he&#8217;ll like I will get it for him. I never expect anything back, I love making the other person know you were thinking about them and how you care about them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/receiving-gifts-love-language-4783665\">https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/receiving-gifts-love-language-4783665<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Valentine&#8217;s Day may be for businesses to gain money but when you go that little extra step to make your significant feel special, I feel the business aspect isn&#8217;t as important anymore. Everyone has their own feelings towards Valentine&#8217;s Day and those are completely valid. However, I feel when you are in a relationship with someone you love, you should acknowledge your appreciation towards them on Valentine&#8217;s Day even if it&#8217;s spending quality time with each other while watching their favorite movie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized is-style-default\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/attachments.office.net\/owa\/EithunNE18%40uww.edu\/service.svc\/s\/GetAttachmentThumbnail?id=AAMkADg0Y2E1ZDNhLWJiMjYtNDdkMi04MDFhLTNjZmZlYzVkZTA4NABGAAAAAAAyacnWh31mTKUVWwXEVMPwBwCSV%2Fvb6QoNRrIrZGCTVLPyAAAAAAEMAAC31MFVXBFzTIOPYca%2BfbbZAABAAMbYAAABEgAQALkvMqYa1b1Ds0ImgRzaFF4%3D&amp;thumbnailType=2&amp;token=eyJhbGciOiJSUzI1NiIsImtpZCI6IkZBRDY1NDI2MkM2QUYyOTYxQUExRThDQUI3OEZGMUIyNzBFNzA3RTkiLCJ0eXAiOiJKV1QiLCJ4NXQiOiItdFpVSml4cThwWWFvZWpLdDRfeHNuRG5CLWsifQ.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.dkBgdfKzqhckXH_nL25K0bhJePq63AVs67Vizg9SGc3OgPgmhLVHF9IoMTK83L1bBvfWcwu7ab68OiR9xw5PgfInu2ZrHWsxRKzD-gkiU69sgalRBvZBKFuYdqD1YHAudq6sxnCZn3p_Qtbhx5FqCjyKuAwUkT6z7g0vlpi7Bv5Nnu_1yaRYnVwltsDeCdBRjcug-OgrSsrHzC8ODiTwKCIbRzt-4Hi9J1NOuevBiUhLtgpvEYT0M1tKedFqorR9L06dWU2HcBiTNF0xeKJBTGOG2MNFZj57jhpiHma4LOIIdHv7PcL9hxYfCF0ZTbTBmOB0Z39ck9kFtt7eOdTe6Q&amp;X-OWA-CANARY=jkHVOrWBgEyDWhzuZv_z6eDE8FD78NkYzw1HQgoohw6K1GIr_Pi9316fqI7UYZRmZewRc8CH0B8.&amp;owa=outlook.office.com&amp;scriptVer=20220204002.06&amp;animation=true\" alt=\"\" width=\"277\" height=\"369\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Flowers I received this year \ud83d\ude42 <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/attachments.office.net\/owa\/EithunNE18%40uww.edu\/service.svc\/s\/GetAttachmentThumbnail?id=AAMkADg0Y2E1ZDNhLWJiMjYtNDdkMi04MDFhLTNjZmZlYzVkZTA4NABGAAAAAAAyacnWh31mTKUVWwXEVMPwBwCSV%2Fvb6QoNRrIrZGCTVLPyAAAAAAEMAAC31MFVXBFzTIOPYca%2BfbbZAABAAMbaAAABEgAQAENWfx8b32dJsH2DiGPR104%3D&amp;thumbnailType=2&amp;token=eyJhbGciOiJSUzI1NiIsImtpZCI6IkZBRDY1NDI2MkM2QUYyOTYxQUExRThDQUI3OEZGMUIyNzBFNzA3RTkiLCJ0eXAiOiJKV1QiLCJ4NXQiOiItdFpVSml4cThwWWFvZWpLdDRfeHNuRG5CLWsifQ.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.l4vB5arVU-1gknxm85qJlwu2rWEYn2L4fZqhjiV--JQ5AIgEVmgy_RNxLSsUivlG03lpgqlU-EUZSDzMjo67f92WLpNP4wWfrSm_V_T-2urs5EHtYlsLLAcoo1izkZUJQI5J2weJTB_SphNItb1OmULbqcGfvUWPJC04LWgJc7Nmdb7UQb5-J7t1wZ-qcqp6ji5bf6dWPeaEdsR_Wr9TXLnajb6LFySS4yN3ZpUxMd7dfzSKitrRbWkxn0lYtKoURX23a7I_3ZNXuv7GST0EVrvg_A2T5LlNCznqqkMx35ioGm74XhiyGCaUURhXuMoIB4LAI0wjv1W_x_WjSMN3jA&amp;X-OWA-CANARY=EAO1djxQSkiOLut3VmKgdYBumCT-8NkYxVAMQOQFeSKfR7b-8wxFYEuxdSgTErOaz6goSxhWFYE.&amp;owa=outlook.office.com&amp;scriptVer=20220204002.06&amp;animation=true\" alt=\"\"\/><figcaption>Valentine&#8217;s Day gift I gave my boyfriend last year. The budget for this gift idea can be whatever you want to make it out to be! The card says, &#8220;life with you makes perfect sense!&#8221; The gifts involving the 5 senses. Taste can be something as small as gum they like the most or their favorite candy bar. The candy balloon gift to the right of this picture cost about 5 dollars to make! I went to the dollar store to find the supplies. After the balloon, fake roses and candy bars I found a foam box to tape or glue the candy bars to and then stuck the stems of the fake roses into the foam! Super easy to make and he loved it! <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>At the end of the day we all want to feel appreciated. Yes, I believe gestures should be made no matter what day it is but especially on Valentines day they should feel maybe just a little bit more special than any other &#8216;normal&#8217; day. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:100%\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:100%\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It seems like you either love or hate Valentine&#8217;s Day. 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