I found Catherine Newman’s perspective on marriage very interesting and I liked the points that she made. Even though she loves her partner she does not want want to marry him because she she does not want him to have power over her or be a possession to him; she wants to be equal with him. I think that if they have the same views, which they obviously do because they have been together for so long, if they got married, he wouldn’t make her feel like a possession. It doesn’t seem fair to her that she can marry Micheal but homosexuals can’t marry. Catherine doesn’t believe that being with only one person forever can be sexually satisfying. Also, by not being married, it is their choice to be together; because they want to be, not because they have to be. If she were married, she would feel trapped with her husband. However, because they have a child together, it makes more sense and is more important that they stay together. Basically, they already share the relationship of a married couple but without the title. I agree with the things she has to say but I still think that marriage is important.